I’m nice to people because I know from bitter experience how bad it feels when people are so horrible. I know it is so wrong to not be nice. So I am nice to everyone, even if they are not. Particularly so if it seems they need it.
I have no ulterior motive, I am not necessarily flirting. I find it impossible to be horrible to anyone, even if they are to me and I’ve begun to hate myself for that.
I am not an angel, I don’t have a marvelous character that makes me naturally say nice things, it is often a real effort. Just because I dont say horrible things back it doesn’t mean I am immune to people being horrible. I am certainly not, I tend to bottle it up and it doesn’t drain away.
If i’ve tried to be nice to you or not and you’ve met me with little more than being really horrible then you are the scum of the earth. One day Karma will come and cripple you.